‘Why me?’

Victim mentality be gone!!

Ever noticed how we grumble, moan, feel dismayed every time 🕰️ we face adversity?

We feel punished.

We feel victimised.

We don't like it.

We wish the adversity would happen to someone else; not us.

Yet, the truth is, adversity is the gateway through which we grow and transform.

Without adversity we would vegetate and our minds would become mash.

Adversity could be in the form of:

🔥 fertility issues ... you have been trying to have a baby for years and still nothing ...

🔥poverty ... you have been toiling and toiling, trying this, trying that ... and still you cannot make ends meet

🔥joblessness ... you have been searching and searching ... and still nothing

🔥that business venture that just won't take off the ground ...

And now your spouse, family, friends are asking you what you have to show for it.

And you are now beginning to lose faith in yourself.

Fact is, when the universe delays results in an area of your life, it is grooming you to help someone else in that area.

Learn to use your pain to heal others; for 'Our pain when we heal, it's supposed to heal others' ~ Lisa Kusiima

So next time adversity rears it's head into your life, instead of asking 'why me?', change the monologue you have with yourself to 'I am ready for this adversity and I am all fired up to tackle it!!'

Truth is, you are fully equipped to tackle any challenge and can overcome it.

Remember:

'Everyone in this world HAS to go through adversity' ~ Pamela Babirukama

It's either you are going through adversity, coming out of adversity or preparing to get into it.

Everyone has their challenge.

You must carry your challenge GRACIOUSLY

So be of good cheer!!

You've got this!!